Marriage

is a disciplined process for reproduction. People sometimes are lonely even though they are married. Marriage, sometimes, tends to be a ritual and most of us act into it. I have seen couples, seeming happy, hanging around shopping complex and in theatres. The female of the pair feels insecure about her future and the male worries about his job and future. Both of them, not living in the present and both of them smile at each other at regular intervals. My marriage was arranged one and I don’t have any regrets about it. One of the first things, I told my wife was regarding my freedom. I told her to live life as if she is living with her best friend. Fidelity, loyalty, etc is their and we love each other everyday and it is multiplying everyday. I respect her freedom and she respects mine. I, also revealed to her, that in fact she does not remember, what she was doing in her last birth and what she is going to be in the next birth. All we can think about was the present, and ways and means to keep ourselves happy during this moment. This can be done only by doing what we really believe is happiness. Her happiness is about having a secure future and settling down with life with loads of money after 5 years. I respect that idea of happiness. Happiness is sometimes, sum total of what you have missed in your previous bygone moments. Happiness is sometimes, relaxing the excess baggage we are carrying around, believing that this is life, whereas this is not actually what we intend to do.